To Play or Not to Play: How Different Video Games Can Affect Our Kids

on September 28, 2018 at 10:46 AM /

Consider the following story as it relates to this week’s topic. At Diana’s party last weekend, the topics of conversation over dinner varied wildly, and you could say that a few were about some pretty touchy subjects. For example, we talked about how teachers have so much less time to be creative in their classrooms because of all the testing, how many families we know who have been touched by drug addiction and whether we should be tracking our kids by their cell phones. Surprisingly enough, however, the topic that hit a nerve with most of us was video games...

Social Media, Teens and What it All Means in Numbers

By Dr. Wendy Rice

on September 20, 2018 at 11:16 AM /

Consider the following story as it relates to this week’s topic. It might be hard to imagine, but social media as we know it is a relatively new concept. It may have gotten its start over a decade ago, but its role in society wasn’t substantial until only a few years ago. Funnily enough, there is a generation that was born into these social media-driven times. What does this mean to them? And what can we do to better understand them? Our Tampa psychologists and counselors want to share some helpful information about this topic. The Stats Social media undoubtedly plays a central...

Major Tantrums: How to Help Your Child Remain Calm

By Dr. Wendy Rice

on September 13, 2018 at 12:46 PM /

Consider the following story as it relates to this week’s topic. Last night, Susan and I went to the movies with my sister, Stella, and her 8-year old son, Anthony. I’m not a fan of bringing young kids to evening movies where there are mostly adults in the audience. See, the last thing I wanted to do was ignite an argument with Susan, so I didn’t say anything. As I feared, just as the movie started, Anthony started to fall apart. He began crying loudly about it being too dark and then crawled under the seats, upending our crazy expensive...

Working Together to Create Safer and More Inclusive School Communities in Tampa

By Dr. Wendy Rice

on August 23, 2018 at 12:08 PM /

Consider the following story as it relates to this week’s topic. School just started for both of my kids. One is in middle school and the other is starting high school this year. They typically adjust well and handle both the academic and social ups and downs pretty well. But this year, my husband and I are feeling a bit more nervous than usual. I guess the daily news of cyberbullying, sexting and school shootings each day makes us hope and pray that they come home safely. It terrifies me to my core! What can we do to prevent things like...

Video Games: Understanding Why So Many Kids Turn to Them

By Dr. Wendy Rice

on August 15, 2018 at 1:05 PM /

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Consider the following story as it relates to this week’s topic. Alex really enjoys his video games. My husband and I usually buy him one as a reward for good grades in school or completing his chores. The great thing about it is that I’ve noticed he isn’t like many kids who spend hours playing while in their room. Whenever it’s time for dinner, he’ll be down promptly. If the yard needs mowing or the trash is full, he’ll take care of it without being asked twice. I have no problems at all with his video game use, just as long...

Love What You Do, Because Doing Nothing is Not an Option!

By Dr. Wendy Rice

on August 1, 2018 at 10:01 AM /

Consider the following story as it relates to this week’s topic. As an academic counselor, I get to spend my time with students and see them take the next steps toward their futures. As much as I love my job, it’s also extremely draining. Sometimes when I get home, the only thing I do is plop down on the couch and watch shows until I inevitably fall asleep! Well, a couple of weeks ago, I found my old knitting kit while cleaning out my closet and decided to take it for a spin. It was great! It’s obviously a low-effort...

Technology Addictions: What You Should Know and How to Avoid It

By Dr. Wendy Rice

on June 20, 2018 at 10:49 AM /

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Consider the following story as it relates to this week’s topic. Katie and I had a pretty bad argument last week and it was completely my fault. She’d just made dinner for us and, even though I know how much she hates this, I spent almost the entirety of my meal on my phone. It’s not that I wasn’t listening to her conversation; I was just trying to catch up with some notifications I had at the same time. Of course, she says I have a problem keeping my eyes away from the screen, and I have to admit that it’s...

Father’s Day: Getting Through it or Making the Most of It

By Dr. Wendy Rice

on June 14, 2018 at 9:57 AM /

A few weeks ago, we discussed Mother’s Day and the difficulties some people experience with it. Now, as the nation prepares to grill some celebratory burgers, go out for a camping trip or try to find the perfect gift for Dad, others are dreading the day. If you have a difficult relationship with your father, you might be scratching your head and wondering how you’ll come out of Father’s Day unscathed. It may get tough, but there are a few steps you can take to either survive Father’s Day or attempt to repair a strained relationship with Dad. Avoiding It This is...

No More Stigmas: Speaking Out About Your Anxiety and Depression

By Dr. Wendy Rice

on June 7, 2018 at 9:56 AM /

On June 5, we lost fashion icon Kate Spade. Many of us knew her brand and loved her purses, iPhone cases and accessories. What most in the public were completely unaware of was that under that lighthearted and creative exterior lived a woman who suffered terribly from depression and a fear of “being found out”. She worried that if her struggles with depression were made public, it would tarnish her image and damage her business. It’s heartbreaking that she was so afraid of what others would say if she privately sought help and spoke out about her mental illness. On Friday,...

Quality Over Quantity: How Important is Family Time for You and Those You Love?

By Dr. Wendy Rice

on June 6, 2018 at 3:43 PM /

Consider the following story as it relates to this week’s piece. Over the last few weeks, I’ve been spending almost 12 hours at the office trying to finalize our next big project. I’m expecting it to be this way for about two more months, but I really hope we get everything ready in a few weeks. Don’t get me wrong, I love my job, but I haven’t had the chance to hang out with my family at all! Steve texted me yesterday to tell me that our son, Robbie, was stellar in his soccer game while I stayed in the office....